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		<title>from our comadres at Blabbeando:  &#8220;Sickening&#8221;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sickening Last week, some anonymous person sent me a number of low-quality clips from a television show called &#8220;José Luis Sin Censura&#8220;. The show, which thankfully I&#8217;ve never seen in my life, is apparently broadcast in some of the major US television Latino markets, including New York City, Los Angeles, Miami and Houston. Think of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Last week, some anonymous person sent me a number of low-quality clips from a television show called &#8220;<a target="_blank" href="http://www.krca62.tv/shows/jluis/" >José Luis Sin Censura</a>&#8220;.</p>
<p>The show, which thankfully I&#8217;ve never seen in my life, is apparently  broadcast in some of the major US television Latino markets, including  New York City, Los Angeles, Miami and Houston.</p>
<p>Think of a smuttier &#8220;The Jerry Springer Show&#8221; with no concern shown for  FCC fines, particularly in their demeaning portrayal of gays, lesbians,  women and transgender folk.</p>
<p>I have compiled the six or seven clips I was sent and uploaded them as a  single clip on YouTube.  I believe the clips come from two separate  shows&#8230;</p>
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<p>Looking for additional info online, I was happy to see that the <strong>Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation</strong> (GLAAD) was <a target="_blank" href="http://glaadblog.org/2010/06/18/glaad-calls-on-jose-luis-sin-censura-to-stop-defaming-lgbt-peopleglaad-exige-que-jose-luis-sin-censura-cese-la-difamacion-contra-personas-lgbt/" >already on the case</a>.  An excerpt from their June 18th statement:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Gay &amp; Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) asks you to join calls for the reality talk show <em>José Luis Sin Censura</em> to immediately stop using defamatory terms and apologize to viewers.   The terms “maricón” and “puñal,” which in English translate to “fa**ot”   were chanted by audience members on the June 8 segment of the program.   The same pattern occurred on the June 10 segment of the show, when   audience members chanted “puto,” a word that also means “fa**ot” in many   Spanish-speaking countries.<br />
GLAAD reached out to executives of the company that produces <em>José Luis Sin Censura</em> to express our concerns, but the company has not responded.  The show   is produced and distributed by Burbank, CA-based LBI, Liberman   Broadcasting Inc. <em>José Luis Sin Censura</em> airs daily on Estrella   TV in Los Angeles, Miami, New York, Houston and other large Latino   markets. By one estimate, Estrella TV reaches about 70% of the nation’s   Latino households and millions of Latinos nationwide.<br />
The show’s format pits guests against one another in combative   situations. This often leads to violence, which audience members are   encouraged to cheer and sends a message that violence against LGBT   people is okay.</p></blockquote>
<p>They urge people to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.change.org/glaad/petitions/view/jos_luis_sin_censura_stop_defaming_lgbt_peoplecesan_la_difamacin_contra_las_personas_lgbt" >take action NOW and express their outrage</a>.</p>
<p>I was also glad and not surprised to see that the amazing <strong>Jeremy Hooper</strong> of <a target="_blank" href="http://www.goodasyou.org/" >Good As You</a> was on the case as well. He&#8217;s got <a target="_blank" href="http://www.goodasyou.org/good_as_you/2010/06/take-action-because-jerry-jerry-go-ricki-go-ricki-and-that-arsenio-whoop-noise-were-annoying-enough-chatty-chant.html" >additional damning footage of the show</a> on his blog.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Got this news from Jesse Equality Garcia, President of Dallas&#8217; LULAC Rainbow Council you can also find them on FaceBook too at: LULAC 4871 &#8211; The Dallas Rainbow Council. Subject: News Release: Dallas LULAC Rainbow Council wins top award at State Convention Dallas LULAC Rainbow Council wins top award at State Convention Ramiro Luna wins [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Got this news from Jesse Equality Garcia, President of Dallas&#8217; <a target="_blank" href="http://www.lulac4871.org/" >LULAC Rainbow Council</a> you can also find them on FaceBook too at: <a target="_blank" href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=48860171906" >LULAC 4871 &#8211; The Dallas Rainbow Council</a>.</div>
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<div><strong>Subject</strong>: <em>News Release: Dallas LULAC  Rainbow Council wins top award at State Convention</em></div>
<div>Dallas LULAC Rainbow Council wins top award  at State Convention<br />
Ramiro Luna wins Man of the Year, statewide  officer position</p>
<p><strong>Monday, June 7, 2010</strong> – Dallas, Texas:  This past  weekend LULAC 4871 – The Dallas Rainbow Council won “Texas LULAC  Council of the Year” at the 2010 Texas LULAC State Convention held in  Austin on June 2-6.  The council also picked up its very first statewide  “Man of the Year” honor, which was awarded to Ramiro Luna.  Luna was  also elected to a statewide officer position: Deputy Director for Young  Adults.</p>
<p>“We are very honored and happy to have received these  recognitions,” said Jesse Garcia, cofounder and president of LULAC 4871,  which previously won the council of the year award in 2008. “We are a  very young council, but we are also a hard-working council. The 75  members who have worked year-round on community service projects and  activism saw their efforts rewarded by longtime-leaders from across the  state. We are humbled and motivated to do even more.”</p>
<p>Awards were  presented at the Texas LULAC Convention Banquet held June 5, with  featured keynote speeches by former Housing Secretary Henry Cisneros and  current Mayor of San Antonio Julian Castro. The election for statewide  positions took place at the general assembly on June 6 at the Austin  Hilton Airport Hotel.</p>
<p>Along with Garcia and Luna, LULAC 4871  members Zhyla Alvarado, Brenda Correa, Ray De Los Santos, Patrick McCoy,  Liliana Robledo, Chelle Simmons and Jesse Tafalla, Jr., attended the  annual convention which focused on civil rights, education and business  opportunities.<br />
LULAC 4871 received the “Council of the Year” honor  for its work in helping rename a downtown street after civil rights  leader Cesar Chavez, for helping Southwest Voter Registration Education  Project register more than 1,200 voters in Dallas County, for conducting  forums on Comprehensive Immigration Reform across North Texas, and for  assisting the Census Bureau in reaching out to hard-to-count  populations.</p>
<p>Luna received “Man of the Year” for his work on  promoting the DREAM Act. He has traveled all over the nation to educate  others about the Development, Relief and Education for Alien Minors Act  (&#8220;DREAM Act&#8221;), a piece of proposed federal legislation that would  provide certain undocumented students who graduate from U.S. high  schools, who are of good moral character, that arrived in the U.S. as  minors, and have been in the country continuously for at least five  years prior to the bill&#8217;s enactment, the opportunity to earn conditional  permanent residency.</p>
<p>Luna was also elected by acclamation by 341  delegates in the general assembly to serve as Deputy Director for Young  Adults. He will oversee the direction of LULAC Councils in colleges and  universities throughout Texas.</p>
<p>“Ramiro is a great ally who  joined our council recently and is proud to be affiliated with the LULAC  Rainbow Council mission,” said Garcia. “We’re very proud of this young  man who is part of a new generation of Latinos who see full equality for  their LGBT brothers and sisters as a civil right.”</p>
<p>Luna also  received a Presidential Citation – the highest honor in the League  awarded by the National President.  National LULAC President Rosa  Rosales commended Luna for his work in galvanizing the youth in LULAC to  take a more active role in demanding immigration reform.</p>
<p>The  Dallas Rainbow Council is also pleased with the recent news that  President Rosales has accepted the invitation to be the Grand Marshal of  the San Antonio Gay Pride Parade being held in her hometown on  Saturday, July 3.  Parade officials have also extended an invitation for  the Dallas LULAC Rainbow Council to be special guests as well.</p>
<p>LULAC  4871 will celebrate this month’s victories at its new event – PRIDE  Fiesta! – being held on Sunday, June 20, from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. at  Kaliente Night Club, located at 4350 Maple Avenue, Dallas, TX 75219.  Performances, prize drawings and festivities, along with great Latin  music, will be provided for guests. Proceeds collected that night will  benefit LULAC 4871&#8242;s council, its scholastic fund and its LifeWalk Team.  For more information, visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org</a>.</p>
<p>LULAC  4871 – The Dallas Rainbow Council was founded on June 12, 2006, by the  Oak Lawn Community in Dallas. The mission of LULAC – the largest and  oldest Hispanic civil rights organization &#8211; is to advance the economic  condition, educational attainment, political influence, health and civil  rights of the Hispanic population of the United States. LULAC 4871 also  strives to create dialogue between the Hispanic and LGBT community  which have a common goal: full equality.  LULAC 4871 now meets every  third Wednesday of the month at 6:30 p.m., at Havana’s, located at 4006  Cedar Springs Rd., Dallas, TX 75219. New members are welcome. For more  information, visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Upcoming  June Events</strong>:</p>
<p>Human Rights Campaign Federal Club Speaker: Jesse  Garcia, president of LULAC 4871 – The Dallas Rainbow Council, will be a  guest speaker at the Human Rights Campaign Federal Club Luncheon  Saturday, June 12. Event begins at 11:15 a.m. and is being held at the  Union Station, located at 400 S. Houston St., Dallas, TX 75202. He will  be joined by Hispanic leaders: Immediate Past National LULAC Director  Hector Flores, State Representative Roberto Alonzo, Dallas City  Councilwoman Delia Jasso and Dallas County Criminal Court No. 10 Judge  Roberto Cañas. For more information: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.dfwfederalclub.org/Events.aspx?posting=147e9519-31a0-45fc-b521-4c0616504fe3"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.dfwfederalclub.org/Events.aspx?posting=147e9519-31a0-45fc-b521-4c0616504fe3</a></p>
<p>On  Air in Houston: Jesse Garcia, president of LULAC 4871 – The Dallas  Rainbow Council, will be interviewed on QueerVoices Radio in Houston’s  KPFT Monday, June 14, 9 to 11 p.m. on the success of Hispanic-LGBT  relations, Comprehensive Immigration Reform, the DREAM Act and Uniting  American Families Act. For more information: visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.queervoices.org"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.queervoices.org</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Monthly  Meeting</strong>: LULAC 4871 &#8211; The Dallas Rainbow Council will meet for its  regularly monthly meeting on Wednesday, June 16, at 6:30 p.m., at  Havana’s, located at 4006 Cedar Springs Rd., Dallas, TX 75219. Special  guests include LGBT Latino Legends <a target="_blank" href="http://www.jesuschairez.com/" >Jesus Chairez </a>and former Dallas  Deputy Mayor Pro-Tem John Loza, plus this year’s scholarship recipient –  Irma Rangel High School May 2010 Graduate Selina Weber! Event is open  to the public. For more information: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org</a>.</p>
<p>Immigration  Town Hall: LULAC 4871 – The Dallas Rainbow Council has been invited to  present at the Equality March Texas&#8217; Crosspoints Community Education  Forum on the subject of Immigration. Forum takes place Thursday, June  17, at 7 p.m., at the Resource Center Dallas, located at 2701 Reagan  St., Dallas, TX 75219. Refreshments will be provided. Event is open to  the public.</p>
<p><strong>PRIDE Fiesta!</strong>: LULAC 4871 – The Dallas Rainbow  Council will host its annual fundraiser Sunday, June 20, from 10 p.m. to  2 a.m. at Kaliente Night Club, located at 4350 Maple Avenue, Dallas, TX  75219. Performances, prize drawings and festivities, along with great  Latin music, will be provided for guests. Proceeds collected that night  will benefit LULAC 4871&#8242;s council, its scholastic fund and the LifeWalk  Team. To sponsor, email <a href="mailto:jessegarciadallas@gmail.com" target="_blank">jessegarciadallas@gmail.com</a>. For more information,  visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org"  target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/l/a5425;www.lulac4871.org</a>.</div>
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DART  Board Meeting: LULAC 4871 – The Dallas Rainbow Council encourages its  members and supporters to show up to the Dallas Area Rapid Transit Board  Meeting on Tuesday, June 22, at 6:30 p.m., at DART Headquarters,  located at 1401 Pacific Avenue, Dallas, TX 75202. We will back up our  group’s decision voted on by the general membership to support the  inclusion of gender expression and identity to DART’s nondiscrimination  policy. LULAC 4871 President Jesse Garcia personally delivered letters  to all DART Board Members via their board secretary on Thursday, April  15, calling on the board to expand its nondiscrimination policy. To  date, no response has been received from DART Board Members.</div>
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		<title>‘Engaged’ couples sought for research project</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[‘Engaged’ couples sought for research project Looking for volunteers for a study of attitudes towards marriage and parenthood among engaged couples.  The study consists of a 25-30 minute online survey. To qualify for the study, you must be 20-35 years old, live in the U.S., and plan to marry or have a commitment ceremony within [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a target="_blank" href="http://may-chang.com/?p=1500" >‘Engaged’ couples sought for research project</a></h1>
<p>Looking for volunteers for a study of attitudes towards marriage  and parenthood among engaged couples.  The study consists of a 25-30  minute online survey. To qualify for the study, you must be 20-35 years  old, live in the U.S., and plan to marry or have a commitment ceremony  within the next 365 days. You and your romantic partner must not have  children, and this must be the first marriage for both of you.</p>
<p>You can:</p>
<p>-Help a doctoral candidate;<br />
-Increase the pool of scientific knowledge;<br />
-Support research on marriage and families; and<br />
-Spend some time thinking about your relationship!</p>
<p>I am working with Dr. Charlotte J. Patterson, a Professor of Psychology  at the University of Virginia.  This study has been approved by the  University of Virginia Institutional Review Board #<a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?q=%232009025800"  rel="nofollow" target="_blank" title="Search Twitter for &quot;2009025800&quot;">2009025800</a>.</p>
<p>If you and/or your romantic partner are interested in participating or  want further information, please email me at <a href="mailto:survey.couples@gmail.com">survey.couples@gmail.com</a>.  I  will send you a link that you can use to access the study.</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Cristina Reitz-Krueger<br />
Doctoral Student<br />
University of Virginia<br />
(434) 243-8558<br />
<a href="mailto:survey.couples@gmail.com">survey.couples@gmail.com</a></p>
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		<title>Ricky Martin is, GAY :-)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ricky Martin is Gay &#8211; but we all knew that!  Santo Gay &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- This is a posting from Ricky Martins personal website.  Ricky Martin Music. com Version Español 3/29/2010 En los últimos meses me di a la tarea de escribir mis memorias. VIEW ENGLISH VERSION BELOW En los últimos meses me di a la tarea [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</p>
<p>This is a posting from Ricky Martins personal website.  <a target="_blank" href="http://rickymartinmusic.com/portal/news/news.asp?item=114532" >Ricky Martin Music. com</a></p>
<h4>Version Español</h4>
<p>3/29/2010</p>
<p><em>En los  últimos meses me di a la tarea de escribir mis memorias.</em></p>
<p><strong>VIEW  ENGLISH VERSION BELOW</strong></p>
<p>En los últimos meses me di a la tarea de  escribir mis memorias. Un proyecto que sabia seria uno verdaderamente  importante para mi porque desde que escribí la primera frase me di  cuenta que seria la herramienta que ayudaría a liberarme de cosas que  venia cargando desde hace mucho tiempo. Cosas que pesaban demasiado.  Escribiendo este minucioso inventario de mi vida, me acerque a mis  verdades. Y esto es de celebrar!</p>
<p>Si existe un lugar que me llena  porque estremece mis emociones, es el escenario, es mi vicio. La música  el espectáculo, el aplauso, estar frente a un publico me hace  sentir que soy capaz de cualquier cosa. Es un tipo de adrenalina y  euforia que no quiero que deje de correr por mis venas jamás. Si  ustedes, el publico y la musa me lo permiten, espero seguir en los  escenarios muchos años mas. Pero hoy  la serenidad me lleva a un lugar  muy especial, uno de reflexión, comprensión y mucha iluminación. Me  siento libre! Y lo quiero compartir.</p>
<p>Mucha gente me dijo que no  era importante hacerlo, que no valía la pena, que todo lo que trabaje y  todo lo que había logrado se colapsaría. Que muchos en este mundo no  estarían preparados para aceptar mi verdad, mi naturaleza. Y como  estos  consejos venían de personas que amo con locura, decidí seguir adelante  con mi &#8220;casi verdad&#8221;. MUY MAL. Dejarme seducir por el miedo fue un  verdadero sabotaje a mi vida. Hoy me responsabilizo por completo de  todas mis decisiones, y de todas mis acciones.</p>
<p>Y si me  preguntaran el dia de hoy ¿Ricky, a que le tienes miedo?  Les  contestaría &#8211; &#8220;a la sangre que corre por las calles de los países en  Guerra, a la esclavitud sexual infantil, al terrorismo, al cinismo de  algunos hombres en el poder, al secuestro de la fe&#8221;. Pero miedo a mi  naturaleza, a mi verdad? NO MAS! Al contrario, estas me dan valor y  firmeza. Justo lo que necesito para mi y para los míos, y mas ahora que  soy padre de 2 criaturas que son seres de luz. Tengo que estar a su  altura. Seguir viviendo como lo hice hasta hoy, seria opacar  indirectamente ese brillo puro con el cual mis hijos han nacido. BASTA  YA! LAS COSAS TIENEN QUE CAMBIAR! Estoy claro que esto no se supone que  pasara hace 5 ni hace 10 años atrás . Esto se supone que pasara hoy. Hoy  es mi dia, este es mi tiempo, mi momento.</p>
<p>Que pasara de ahora en  adelante? Quien sabe. Solo me puedo enfocar en lo que estoy viviendo  ahora. Estos años en silencio y reflexión me han fortalecido y me  recordaron que el amor vive dentro de mi, que la aceptación la encuentro  en mi interior, y que la verdad solo trae la calma. Hoy para mi el  significado de la felicidad toma otra dimensión</p>
<p>Ha sido un  proceso muy intenso, angustiante y doloroso pero también liberador. Les  juro que cada palabra que están leyendo aquí nace de amor, purificación,  fortaleza, aceptación y desprendimiento. Que escribir estas líneas es  el acercamiento a mi paz interna, parte vital de mi evolución. Hoy  ACEPTO MI HOMOSEXUALIDAD como un regalo que me da la vida. ¡Me siento  bendecido de ser quien soy!-</p>
<p>RM</p>
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ENGLISH VERSION</strong></p>
<p>A  few months ago I decided to write my memoirs, a project I knew was  going to bring me closer to an amazing turning point in my life. From  the moment I wrote the first phrase I was sure the book was the tool  that was going to help me free myself from things I was carrying within  me for a long time. Things that  were too heavy for me to keep inside.  Writing this account of my life, I got very close to my truth. And  thisis something worth celebrating.</p>
<p>For many years, there has  been only one place where I am in touch with my emotions fearlessly and  that&#8217;s the stage. Being on stage fills my soul in many ways, almost  completely. It&#8217;s my vice.  The music, the lights and the roar of the  audience are elements that make me feel capable of anything. This rush  of adrenaline is incredibly addictive.  I don&#8217;t ever want to stop  feeling these emotions. But it is serenity that brings me to where I&#8217;m  at right now. An amazing emotional place of comprehension, reflection  and enlightenment. At this moment I&#8217;m feeling the same freedom I usually  feel only on stage, without a doubt, I need to share.</p>
<p>Many  people told me: &#8220;Ricky it&#8217;s not important&#8221;, &#8220;it&#8217;s not worth it&#8221;, &#8220;all  the years you&#8217;ve worked and everything you&#8217;ve built will collapse&#8221;,  &#8220;many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your  reality, your nature&#8221;. Because all this advice came from people who I  love dearly, I decided to move on with my life not sharing with the  world my entire truth.  Allowing myself to be seduced by fear and  insecurity became a self-fulfilling prophecy of sabotage. Today I take  full responsibility for my decisions and my actions.</p>
<p>If someone  asked me today, &#8220;Ricky, what are you afraid of?&#8221; I would answer &#8220;the  blood that runs through the streets of countries at war&#8230;child slavery,  terrorism&#8230;the cynicism of some people in positions of power, the  misinterpretation of faith.&#8221; But fear of my truth? Not at all!  On the  contrary, It fills me with strength and courage. This is just what I  need especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are  so full of light and who with their outlook teach me new things every  day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly  diminish the glow that my kids where born with. Enough is enough. This  has to change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is  supposed to happen now. Today is my day, this is my time, and this is my  moment.</p>
<p>These years in silence and reflection made me stronger  and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this  kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn&#8217;t even know  existed.</p>
<p>What will happen from now on? It doesn&#8217;t matter. I can  only focus on what&#8217;s happening to me in this moment. The word  &#8220;happiness&#8221; takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a  very intense process. Every word that I write in this letter is born out  of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a  solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution.</p>
<p>I  am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed  to be who I am.</p>
<p>RM</p>
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		<title>Mexico&#8217;s Out, Proud Christian</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[SantoGay thinks it&#8217;s funny how the article starts, with &#8220;Christian Chavez is the heir apparent to Ricky Martin’s Latin-American pop star throne.&#8221;  WHAT.  I don&#8217;t think so.  But the article is informative.  Check it out from the ADVOCATE.COM &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Mexico&#8217;s Out, Proud Christian By David Michael Conner Christian Chavez is the heir apparent to Ricky [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SantoGay thinks it&#8217;s funny how the article starts, with &#8220;Christian Chavez is the heir apparent to Ricky Martin’s Latin-American pop star throne.&#8221;  WHAT.  I don&#8217;t think so.  But the article is informative.  Check it out from the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/03/25/Mexicos_Out_Proud_Christian/" >ADVOCATE.COM</a></p>
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<h1>Mexico&#8217;s Out, Proud Christian</h1>
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<p>By  David Michael Conner</p>
<p>Christian Chavez is the heir apparent to Ricky Martin’s  Latin-American pop star throne.  Like Martin, Chavez helped a teen pop  group — RDB — sell millions of albums throughout the Spanish-speaking  world, and he is now poised to take the United States by storm.  Unlike  Ricky Martin, though, when photos of what appeared to be a marriage  ceremony between him and another young man surfaced in 2007, the  Mexican-born artist answered, “Yes, I am gay.”</p>
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<p>Since that time,  Chavez has been an outspoken advocate for LGBT rights in Latin America.   His new album, out now, is called<em> Almas Transparentes</em> — <em>Transparent  Souls</em> — and with song titles like “Sexyboy,” this young gay artist  isn’t holding back.</p>
<p><em>The Advocate </em>caught up with Chavez  to talk about his new album at 7:30 a.m. — and the singer was already  several hours into his day.</p>
<p><strong><em>The Advocate: </em>You’re  getting an early start to the day, huh?</strong><br />
<em>Christian  Chavez: </em>[<em>Laughs</em>]  I’ve been awake since 4:00 a.m.  But I’m  OK!<br />
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In 2007 a magazine published photos of what  appeared to be a gay marriage ceremony in Canada.  Did you ever consider  denying your sexuality when this information went public?</strong><br />
No,  no, it was my decision.  For me, it was really important to break out  with those kinds of things.  When I was 15 or 16, and I was struggling  about my sexuality, I wished that there was somebody, a teenager, who I  could look up to and be like, &#8220;Well, he’s a gay guy and he’s doing his  life normal.&#8221;  And I think it was the best decision, because now, in  Mexico, we live in a good, good place, a historic moment, because gay  marriage is now allowed, and they’re looking at adoption, so it’s a  great thing.</p>
<p><strong>Newspapers all over the world covered the  story of your coming-out, often indicating surprise that someone from  Mexico would publicly admit to being gay.  But gay marriage is now legal  in Mexico City and another Mexican state.  Do you think people  throughout the world have the wrong idea about your home country?</strong><br />
Well,  I think that some people tend to take the Mexican people for granted.   There were a lot of ideas that Mexico was one step behind about a lot of  things.  In Mexico this is a really huge step.  There’s not a lot of  countries that allow these kinds of things.  For me, it’s really  wonderful, because it’s a step for human rights.  And little by little,  for sure, it’s a big, big step and a good example for Latin America as  well.</p>
<p><strong>How has your life changed since you came out?</strong><br />
Obviously,  I was [happier].  When you can be free and you don’t have to pretend  who you are not, I think it’s wonderful.  I mean, to have the  opportunity to live your life free, to have the people know who you are  and what your preferences are, and they don’t care.  That’s wonderful.   And for me, that’s a double challenge.  Now I am starting to go solo,  and I want to open those doors for a new generation and I have the  responsibility to do good for them.</p>
<p>There is more in the column so please go to the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/03/25/Mexicos_Out_Proud_Christian/" >ADVOCATE.COM</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:31:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From MovieLine.com: &#8220;Tribeca responds to GLAAD&#8217;s stupid request to ban film&#8221; A representative from the Tribeca Film Festival has issued this statement in response to GLAAD’s campaign to have the “transploitation” film Ticked-Off Trannies with Knives barred from screening: “The filmmakers provided a copy of this film to GLAAD in February, and for weeks the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.movieline.com/2010/03/tribeca-glaad-respond-to-trannygate.php" >From MovieLine.com</a>:</p>
<p>&#8220;Tribeca responds to GLAAD&#8217;s stupid request to ban film&#8221;</p>
<p>A representative from the Tribeca Film Festival has issued this  statement in response to GLAAD’s campaign to  have the “transploitation” film <em>Ticked-Off Trannies with Knives</em> <a target="_blank" href="http://www.movieline.com/2010/03/glaad-mounts-censorship-campaign-over-tribeca-transploitation-flick.php" >barred  from screening</a>:</p>
<p>“The filmmakers provided a copy of this film to GLAAD  in February, and for weeks the organization had been supportive  to the filmmakers.  In fact, GLAAD representatives  advised the film’s producer, director and cast on how to describe the  film to its core constituency.”</p>
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<p>“Tribeca is proud of its ongoing commitment to  bring diverse voices and stories to its audiences, and looks forward to  the film’s premiere at our Festival next month.”</p>
<p>Meanwhile, a GLAAD rep wrote to Movieline  to object to our use of the word “censorship,” which they called “strong  editorial. GLAAD is calling for the film to  be removed from the Tribeca Film Festival and finds it troubling that  the respected Tribeca Film Festival would give a film that  sensationalizes anti-transgender violence and misrepresents the lives of  transgender women…GLAAD’s campaign ensures that the Tribeca Film  Festival knows many members of the LGBT community  aren’t pleased with their decision to show the film — and those of us  who are offended by this film will hold the festival accountable for  showing this problematic film.”</p>
<p>Tribeca’s statement corroborates what a star of the film <a target="_blank" href="http://www.movieline.com/2010/03/glaad-mounts-censorship-campaign-over-tribeca-transploitation-flick.php#comment-26554" >already  commented on Movieline</a>, which is that GLAAD had  been well aware of the film for close to a year — and had even <em>worked  with the filmmakers</em> — but for some reason chose to use the  misleading language “was recently alerted” in their press release.</p>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.dallasvoice.com/artman/publish/article_12648.php" >Here is an article that ran in today&#8217;s Dallas Voice</a>:  Go to the film&#8217;s fundraiser!</p>
<p style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dallas filmmaker  Israel Luna takes his ‘Ticked-Off Trannies With Knives!’ to the Tribeca  Film Festival — but not without controversy</p>
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<td>ANY WAY YOU SLICE IT | Jenna  Skyy, left, and Krystal Summers, right, shouldn’t be  so ticked off at  director Israel Luna as their film heads to New York for the  Tribeca Film Festival. (Photo by Arnold Wayne Jones)</td>
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<p style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">NY OR BUST<br />
Film fundraiser at JR.’s Bar &amp; Grill,<br />
3923 Cedar Springs Road.<br />
April 13 at 10 p.m.<br />
LaLunaEntertainment.com.</p>
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<p>When Israel Luna submitted his latest film, Ticked-Off Trannies with  Knives, to the Tribeca Film Festival, he expected the usual “Thank You  For Your Interest, We Wish You The Best Of Luck” letter. Instead, he got  the news that his comedy-slasher-exploitation revenge fantasy had been  accepted into one of the nation’s most prestigious film festivals,  established in 2003 by Robert De Niro, Jane Rosenthal and Craig Hatkof  in New York City.</p>
<p>The low-budget feature — shot in Dallas last summer over 18 days  — follows a group of transgender women who are violently beaten by three  men and left for dead. After they regain consciousness and fully  recuperate, they are stalked by their attackers but turn the tables in  graphically sadistic ways, resulting in a lot of blood … and a glimpse  into the mind of a filmmaker with a seriously dark sense of humor.</p>
<p>“The idea actually came up when a group of us were watching the  Grindhouse movies that Quentin Tarantino and Robert Rodriguez did,” Luna  says. “After, we were just playing around and someone said I should do  this with drag queens. That would be so much fun. I thought, ‘Well, let  me try to think of how we could do this with absolutely no budget  whatsoever.’ I thought a simple, old-fashioned revenge movie would be  easy to write for me. And that’s what I did.”</p>
<p>Luna has always been a big fan of ’70s-era movies like Black Mama, White  Mama and Cleopatra Jones, so he thought it would be fun to do a  contemporary movie in that vintage style.</p>
<p>Rather than blaxploitation, as those movies were commonly categorized,  Luna considers his to be a transploitation flick. And just as people  argued that the stereotypical blaxploitation movies brought to light the  injustices against the black community, many fought for the end of the  movies claiming that they were causing more harm through their  perpetuation of stereotypes.</p>
<p>Similarly, a Facebook page has been started by Dallas transgender woman  Kelli Busey, calling for the boycott of the film at Tribeca based on  concerns that it “exploits violence against trans women for cheap  laughs” and that it “portray[s] trans women as murderous vigilantes  hunting down their abusers [which] is hardly going to improve  understanding about this heavily marginalized group of people.”</p>
<p>Luna wasn’t expecting this kind of backlash.</p>
<p>“I didn’t think that it would be such a topical thing or an issue, but  we’ve been getting stuff about the name, the title, and using the word  ‘tranny.’ And then there are people who are like, is it right to do an  eye-for-an-eye kind of thing?” he says of the film’s critics. “When I  was first writing the script, I just wanted to do an old-fashioned  revenge movie. This group of people gets bashed. They come back for  revenge. Done.”</p>
<p>Luna is puzzled somewhat by the controversy because the main theme of  the film is empowerment, not victimhood — and certainly not mocking the  trans characters.</p>
<p>“I thought the gay thing’s been done, the coming-out-to-the-parents  thing has been done. We’re just so past all of that stuff,” he says.  “Who’s now the most under-represented and misunderstood? The trans  community. And now with all the new rights [issues] coming up and  murders [against transgender people] happening, that’s what I wanted to  do. Everyone says I have the corner on the market with the drag queens  and the transgender women here in Dallas because I have them in all of  my projects. I just have this fascination and love [for them].”</p>
<p>According to Luna, the Tribeca honchos told him this is the first  featured they’ve screened where actual trans women play transgender  characters in central roles (Krystal Summers, Kelexis Davenport and  Erica Andrews), a bit of ground breaking he’s especially proud of …  particularly since he didn’t condescend to the characters.</p>
<p>“When I was writing it, I saw them as women,” he says. “That’s why when  Tribeca called us and said they wanted to include us [I was thrilled].  It was huge because this to me isn’t a gay story and Tribeca isn’t a gay  festival.”</p>
<p>The title seems to be what has galvanized opposition to the film (so  far, none of the critics has apparently screened the film).</p>
<p>“I ran [the title] past everybody. I had transgender women in front of  and behind the camera. And I asked all of them what they thought of  this. They were all OK with it. I even had other transgender women in  the community say it was cool. There are people that disagree, but it’s  not all of them,” he says.</p>
<p>Krystal Summers, who plays the leading role, says she was converted to  its message.</p>
<p>“Just the other night Krystal said that she was a little iffy on taking  the role, but now that all of this is happening, she’s proud to be  transgender and she loves the fact that it’s in the title now,” he says.  “It’s brought out this confidence in her.”<br />
On top of that, it’s entertainment, Luna says.</p>
<p>“There are so many other elements filmmaking-wise that you have to think  of to get people in the seats and the title is catchy. The biggest  thing is that we beat anybody to the punch that wants to make a joke  about it. We’re already telling you that these are transgender women,  now let’s move on.”</p>
<p>Though that may be easier said than done for those offended by the title  or plot, Luna hopes his movie simply achieves what he set out to do:  Make people laugh, give them a good scare and fulfill latent revenge  fantasies of anyone who has ever been a target of hate.</p>
<p>Whether its detractors will see it and find the transgender women who  turn the tables on their attackers to be empowering remains to be seen.  But Luna’s main goal will always be to provide escapist entertainment  through his films by exploring taboo themes or putting his own twist on  tried-and-true genres. Next up on his development short list: A  (straight) musical hard-core porno.</p>
<p>Nope, that won’t be controversial at all.</p>
<p>This article appeared in the Dallas  Voice print edition March 26, 2010.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 05:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I conic Mexican singer, Paquita la del Barrio says that she would prefer a child starve to death on the street then to be adopted by &#8220;them,&#8221; a same-sex couple.  Paquita who has had made money from the GLBT community has really pissed me off.  I am no longer a fan and will no longer [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I conic Mexican singer, Paquita la del Barrio says that she would prefer a child starve to death on the street then to be adopted by &#8220;them,&#8221; a same-sex couple.  Paquita who has had made money from the GLBT community has really pissed me off.  I am no longer a fan and will no longer buy her music and I hope you will do the same.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Simple&#8221; a short film about gay puppy love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 03:20:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found the 20 min film, &#8220;Simple,&#8221; by 20-year old, independent Mexican film maker Chucho E. Quintero charming.   Brought back memories of having a crush on a boy when I was so teenage &#8230; don&#8217;t want to give too much information and spoil the fun in seeing the movie. I spoke with Quintero today [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found the 20 min film, &#8220;<em><a target="_blank" href="http://www.vimeo.com/9457504" >Simple</a></em>,&#8221; by 20-year old, independent Mexican film maker Chucho E. Quintero charming.   Brought back memories of having a crush on a boy when I was so teenage &#8230; don&#8217;t want to give too much information and spoil the fun in seeing the movie.</p>
<p>I spoke with Quintero today and we had a nice conversation on how he made the film, locations, wardrobe, the actors, Quintero had no money for a budget, but with the help of his friends, family, AND a borrowed camera &#8211; yes a borrowed camera &#8211; he put this film together.  When so many can&#8217;t get going because of what the don&#8217;t have, Quintero has no limits in his creativity and does based on his sheer desire to make films.  He talks of wanting to be a film director &amp; producer &#8211; but he already is.</p>
<p>Quintero also revealed during our lunch and coffee in <a target="_blank" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Col-Santa-Maria-la-Ribera/328698259971?ref=ts" >Col. Santa Maria la Ribera</a>, how the movie <em>Simple</em> is also sort of autobiographical as well:  revealing such intimate details of his life.  I found Chucho, as he likes to be known, not only a heartfelt and modest person BUT a creative genius that is just beginning to grow.</p>
<p>Enjoy the short film <a target="_blank" href="http://www.vimeo.com/9457504" >Simple</a>, that was shot in Mexico City:  Spanish w/English subtitles.</p>
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<p><a target="_blank" href="http://vimeo.com/9457504" >simple</a> from <a target="_blank" href="http://vimeo.com/homecoming" >Home Coming</a> on <a target="_blank" href="http://vimeo.com" >Vimeo</a>.</p>
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		<title>Roses are Red, Violets Are Blue:  Mexican Church and State Go Nose to Nose Over Who Can Marry Who</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 16:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Roses are Red, Violets Are Blue: Mexican Church and State Go Nose to Nose Over Who Can Marry Who By JOHN ROSS  column from CounterPunch As Valentine&#8217;s Day approaches, stationary stores in the old quarter of this megalopolis are awash with Cupids and hearts and the effusive iconography of romance. Ten-tiered wedding cakes spire to [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; font-size: xx-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">By JOHN ROSS  column from </span><a target="_blank" href="http://www.counterpunch.org/ross02122010.html" ><span style="font-size: small;">CounterPunch</span></a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As Valentine&#8217;s Day approaches, stationary stores in the old quarter of this megalopolis are awash with Cupids and hearts and the effusive iconography of romance. Ten-tiered wedding cakes spire to the chandeliers in the windows of the Ideal, the palace of such confectionary extravaganzas. Down the block, beribboned classic cars are lined up outside La Profesa, a colonial church much favored for high society weddings. Marriage is merchandise for the Roman Catholic Church &#8211; priests charge sumptuous (30,000 pesos) fees for tying the knots.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Meanwhile, Church and State, ancient rivals for the affections of the Mexican people, are nose-to-nose over who exactly can marry whom.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Princes of the Catholic Church are aghast at the recent vote of the Mexico City Legislative Assembly to legalize same sex marriage that in their jaundiced vista has transformed this megalopolis into one monstrous Sodom &amp; Gomorrah. This past December 21st, local legislators, led by the left-center Party of the Democratic Revolution (PRD) which holds a lopsided majority in the Assembly voted 39 to 20 to amend the city&#8217;s civil code by modifying the definition of marriage, striking down language that restricted such coupling to a man and a woman, and upgrading civil unions (&#8220;societies of conviviality&#8221;) between lovers of the same sex to matrimony. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The new law also specifically stipulates that same sex couples can adopt <a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1568584245/counterpunchmaga" ><img src="http://www.counterpunch.org/monstruo.jpeg" border="0" alt="" width="120" height="180" align="right" /></a>children, a right they previously enjoyed &#8211; any Mexican can adopt a child so long as they are 17 years older than the adoptee &#8211; but which has the Church&#8217;s testicles in a major uproar.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the aftermath of passage, the scene in the old, ornate chambers of the Legislative Assembly was one of widespread jubilation &#8211; with pockets of bitter recrimination. Up in the balconies, gays and lesbians smooched and waved enormous rainbow flags. Down on the Assembly floor, the right-wing PAN party delegation led by Mariana Gomez, cousin of first lady Margarita Zavala, stomped out, threatening to take the notorious changes in the civil code straight to the Supreme Court.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Like passage of such liberalizing social measures as free abortion on demand, a right to die act that promotes euthanasia, and the aforementioned civil unions, both the PAN and its perpetual allies in the Catholic hierarchy have gone ballistic at the prospect of homosexual nuptials. Under the vaulting arches of the ancient Metropolitan Cathedral, Cardinal Norberto Rivera, the shepherd of the most populous archdioceses in Christendom, condemned same sex marriage as an &#8220;aberration&#8221; that &#8220;will invariably lead to the ruin of society&#8221; and called upon Mexico&#8217;s Catholics to disobey the new law, an edict that spurred threats by &#8220;Jacobins&#8221; as secularists are quaintly maligned by Holy Mother Church, to take the Cardinal to court on charges of &#8220;treason.&#8221; Grievously offended, Rivera protested that leftists are &#8220;trying to prohibit us from speaking in the name of Jesus Christ.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Such Church-State conflicts have stippled the history of this neighbor republic since it declared its independence from the Spanish Crown 200 years ago this year, a bicentennial<br />
that is being celebrated with much hoopla here and which the Church demands a piece of despite separation from the Mexican State that has been defined as a secular institution by three of its Constitutions.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Writing in the Archdioceses&#8217; weekly &#8220;From The Faith&#8221;, Cardinal Rivera&#8217;s mouthpiece, Father Hugo Valdemar, advocated for excommunication of all legislators who had voted up same sex marriage and suggested that couples who adopted children would do so to abuse the youngsters or exploit them for kiddie porn. If a child has two fathers which one would be his role model, inquisitioned Father Valdemar? Would he emulate his parents by wearing make-up and mini-skirts? In Morelia Michoacan, Bishop Alfredo India added to the homophobic frenzy by avowing that even dogs did not engage in same sex fornication. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Catholic Church was hardly alone in its vivid vindictiveness. Both Antonio Chaudruhi, Patriarch of the Orthodox Church, and Arturo Favela, president of the Confraternity of Christian Churches joined in denouncing such &#8220;sinfulness.&#8221; </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Mexico City Archdioceses&#8217; hypothesis that same sex couples are child molesters is a textbook exhibition of the Church&#8217;s malignant hypocrisy. Recent scandals involving pederast priests have stained the hierarchy&#8217;s reputation and depleted its coffers. The Legionnaires of Christ have paid out millions USD to compensate victims of the order&#8217;s founder and serial sodomist Macial Marcial (the omnisexual priest also fathered children with three different women.) </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Cardinal Norberto himself has been implicated in multiple imbroglios &#8211; as Bishop of Tehuacan Puebla and Mexico City, Rivera personally shielded Father Nicolas Aguilar, accused of as many as 600 incidents of pedophilia by moving him from parish to parish, ultimately shipping him off to Los Angeles where Cardinal Roger Mahoney continued the subterfuge. Mahoney and Rivera have been called to account for their cover-up by authorities in both countries. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Separation of Church and State as mandated by the Mexican Constitution has narrowed dramatically in the ten years that the PAN has held the presidency. Vicente Fox, the first opposition party candidate to take power, campaigned literally wrapped in the banner of the Virgin of Guadalupe and stunned so-called Jacobins by kneeling to kiss Pope John Paul II&#8217;s ring during the late pope&#8217;s last visit to Mexico. His successor, Felipe Calderon, whose Catholic zealot father was a hero of the &#8220;<a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cristero_War" >Cristero War</a>&#8221; against the federal government that took 30,000 lives between 1925 and 1929, shares the podium with high Church officials at Vatican-sponsored venues such as the 2008 Catholic Families Congress in Mexico City. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The PANista governor of Jalisco lavishes state funds to refurbish churches that served as sanctuaries for the &#8220;Cristeros&#8221; and the governor of Mexico state Enrique Pena Nieto, the frontrunner for the once and future ruling PRI party&#8217;s nomination in 2012 presidential elections, just returned from a pilgrimage to Rome to obtain Pope Benedict&#8217;s blessing for his impending marriage to soap opera mega-star Angelica Rivera (no relation) AKA &#8220;La Gaviota&#8221; (&#8220;The Seagull.&#8221;) </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Pope Benedict used the occasion to rail against same sex marriage in Mexico as &#8220;a crime against creation that will destroy the differences between sexes…&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When Mexico City legalized abortion in the first 12 weeks of gestation, Cardinal Rivera ordered the capital&#8217;s churches to ring their bells in mourning. Collaboration between the PAN and the PRI has resulted in the criminalization of abortion in 18 states and the two parties are expected to soon announce the introduction of a constitutional amendment to outlaw the procedure everywhere in Mexico, including the capital. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Despite raging homophobia in the provinces, Mexico City remains an oasis of sexual liberation. Men holding hands and women soul kissing women in public no longer invoke horrified stares in this cosmopolitan capital where every June since the Stonewall riots convoked the movement for gay, lesbian, and transgender rights, tens of thousands march and party to celebrate their sexual orientation. Despite the PAN&#8217;s and Cardinal Norberto&#8217;s obstreperous recriminations, in a recent survey of the right-wing party&#8217;s own base in preparation for an upcoming lawsuit to nullify same sex marriage when it kicks in March 4th, half of those polled supported the new law &#8211; although 70% vehemently opposed adoption. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As the tide shifts north of the border where six U.S. states, the nation&#8217;s capital, and one Canadian province now provide legal cover for same sex marriages and unions, in Latin America, a bastion of virulent Machismo, the times too are a-changing. Uruguay and Colombia have put a legal stamp on such arrangements, as have three provinces of Buenos Aires and a Brazilian state. Cuba, led by President Raul Castro&#8217;s daughter Mariela, is moving in the same direction. Mexico City was not even Mexico&#8217;s first jurisdiction to approve such legislation &#8211; Coahuila in the north held its first same sex wedding three years ago. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This Valentine&#8217;s Day all over the Latin continent, gays and lesbians will be exchanging hearts and flowers and vows of undying love as they hand out slices of wedding cake to celebrate unholy matrimony.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>John Ross</strong> is on the road with his latest cult classic &#8220;<a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1568584245/counterpunchmaga" >El Monstruo &#8211; Dread &amp; Redemption in Mexico City</a><a target="_blank" href="http://www.counterpunch.org/El%20Monstruo%20-%20Dread%20&amp;%20Redemption%20in%20Mexico%20City"  class="broken_link"></a>&#8220;</span></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Marcha den Defensa del Derecho al matrimonio entre personsas de Mismo Sexo&#8221; &#8211; March in the defense for the right for the same sex couples to Marry, held Saturday, February 6, 2010, in Mexico City.</p>
<p>The crowd of GLBT people and their supporters gathered to start the March at the <a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/El_%C3%81ngel" >Angel of Independence</a> in La Zona Rosa.  The March did not to towards the Zocalo in front of the Presidential Place but to the official residence of the President of Mexico, <a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Los_Pinos" >Los Pinos</a>.</p>
<p>It was exciting to be at the March documenting the event, full of 100&#8242;s of participants and one Boy group doing some entertainment.  The march never made it to Los Pinos, because right before the March got to Los Pinos at one end of Chapultapec park, the March was stopped by 100&#8242;s of barricades, Federal Police in full body gear with helmets &#8211; with face guards.</p>
<p>Here is what I got of the event.</p>
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<p class="wp-caption-text"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/santogay/4337835776/" >(In the March)</a> by <a target="_blank" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/santogay/" >santogay</a></p>
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<p>Here is a Boy group that did a song prior to starting the March on Paseo de la Reforma.  Song is called &#8220;Chico Gay&#8221; and is a take off of the song &#8220;Malchik Gay,&#8221; by T.A.T.U.</p>
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